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Why Moms are Super Heroes

July 29, 2013 by Arena Blake 41 Comments

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It’s no secret that I had a pretty difficult pregnancy. After three weeks in the hospital on bed rest and an emergency c-section, I didn’t really expect an easy transition to motherhood. I didn’t have that post-delivery moment so many other mothers talk about where they looked into their newborn’s eyes and it was love at first sight.

I don’t even remember what he looked like the day of his birth.

After about 10 seconds in my arms, Andrew was quickly moved to the NICU for monitoring. I remember James calling to me, “Are you ok? Do you want me to stay with you?” “Go with the baby” I yelled, praying that my little one would be alright.

Then, I was alone.

Well, I wasn’t technically alone. There were nurses cleaning me up and moving me to the postpartum ward. But I felt alone.

I was being treated with magnesium to combat my preeclampsia, so I could not go to the NICU to visit my son until more than 24 hours after his birth. And the first time I did was not the spectacular meeting of my dreams.

I had to fight with the NICU nurse to even get to hold him — we didn’t come during one of his designated “touch” times, and she told me I wasn’t allowed to hold him. Thankfully, my delivery nurse told her in no uncertain terms that I had not held my baby since he was born and I was not leaving until I got to hold him.

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This was the first of many battles I’ve fought as a mother.

As a Dr. Smith’s Premium Parent, I was asked to share the thing that most surprised me about motherhood. As I thought about this more and more, I kept coming back to how often I’ve had to fight for what’s best for my son (and myself).

I never thought my first moment with him would be something I’d have to fight for.

I never imagined feeling guilty about calling the doctor when he was sick.

But here’s the thing I’ve come to realize: Every family/child/parent is different. What’s best for you may not be what’s best for me. And most others think they know what’s best for you and your child, and will try to impose that upon you. So, as a mother (or father), you have to go into battle, guns blazing, ready to fight for what’s best for your child.

YOU know them better than anyone else. So trust your gut, and fight for it.

I’ll tell anyone who asks that I think moms are Super Heroes.

  1. They have supernatural powers that help them understand what a crying baby needs. Isn’t it crazy how you just KNOW what your child wants?
  2. Their uniform is a comfy shirt and yoga pants, stained with mushed food and spit up. You know those days when you don’t get a chance to shower? Yeah. Those days.
  3. They can sense when their child is up to no good. A quiet toddler spells T-R-O-U-B-L-E.
  4. The tools of their trade remain the same: Some healthy snacks, juice, diapers, wipes and good diaper rash cream.

Yes, I said a good diaper rash cream. 

Diaper rash creams are not all created equal. A good cream can be the difference between a fussy, crying baby and a calm one. I’d never tried Dr. Smith’s before, but after sampling some of their cream, it’s now a staple in my diaper bag.

It works quickly and clears up any sign of diaper rash. I also like that it doesn’t smell like medication.

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If you’re looking for a new diaper cream to add to your Super Mom tool belt, Dr. Smith’s is now available nationwide at Walgreens! You can find the retailer nearest you at drsmiths.com.

To celebrate their nationwide launch, Dr. Smith’s is giving away a $50 Walgreens gift card!

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What do you have in your Super Mom tool belt? Have you ever tried Dr. Smith’s diaper rash cream?

 

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  1. Carrie

    July 29, 2013 at 9:57 am

    Number one must-have is wipes and an extra diaper!

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    • Arena Blake

      July 29, 2013 at 5:30 pm

      This is so true! I keep extra wipes and a diaper in my purse, just in case!

      Reply
  2. Jessica

    July 29, 2013 at 9:57 am

    I can’t live without wipes in my purse. Wipes and my I-phone and I can rule the world.

    Reply
    • Arena Blake

      July 29, 2013 at 5:30 pm

      LOVE it! That’s all it takes!

      Reply
  3. Shannon Schmid

    July 29, 2013 at 9:59 am

    I had an emergency C-section too, and I totally remember that alone feeling also. I wanted hubby to go with the baby – but it is a strange thing to be separated from them! Sorry you went through that! PS. The thing I have to have in my bag? A change of clothes. If i have them- they wont get used. If I dont? We’ll for sure need them;)

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    • Arena Blake

      July 29, 2013 at 5:31 pm

      Isn’t that the rule, Shannon? We do the exact same thing. And sometimes, even if I bring an extra set, I need TWO. Sigh.

      Reply
  4. Belinda

    July 29, 2013 at 10:03 am

    Wipes are a definite must have!

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    • Arena Blake

      July 29, 2013 at 5:31 pm

      Totally!

      Reply
  5. Gena

    July 29, 2013 at 10:06 am

    wipes!

    Reply
  6. Mary Happymommy

    July 29, 2013 at 10:36 am

    What surprised me most was that I thought babyhood would be the hardest part and that it would get easier as they grow up. Boy, was I wrong! It gets harder as they grow older, at least with my oldest child.

    Reply
    • Arena Blake

      July 29, 2013 at 5:32 pm

      I am so feeling you on this Mary! It seems like it gets harder as the days go by… I never expected that. I thought it would get easier!

      Reply
  7. shaunie

    July 29, 2013 at 10:54 am

    That they really mean that it takes a lot of work and you do have to have the energy. Your never sleep (or hardly if you do)

    Reply
    • Arena Blake

      July 29, 2013 at 5:32 pm

      It is amazing how little sleep a person can operate on 😉

      Reply
  8. Kim Chance

    July 29, 2013 at 10:58 am

    9 years after birthing my first child, I’m still amazed at how messy kids can be. They can buzz through a room and cause destruction in their wake in a matter of minutes!

    Reply
    • Arena Blake

      July 29, 2013 at 5:33 pm

      Oh my gosh, I will clean the living room and it will be DESTROYED again in minutes. And I just have one!

      Reply
  9. Myrah - Coupon Mamacita

    July 29, 2013 at 11:45 am

    The crazy hours having to get up and feed baby!

    Reply
  10. Kelsey Apley

    July 29, 2013 at 11:47 am

    Well we personally don’t have a baby or kid right now. We lost ours, but I think I mostly hear about the hours your up at night and how many diapers babies go through!

    Reply
  11. Krystyn @ Really, Are You Serious?

    July 29, 2013 at 12:32 pm

    How much your heart can grow immediately! And how little sleep you can function on!

    Reply
  12. Kerri (TheMaven)

    July 29, 2013 at 12:48 pm

    When people tell you your life will change… listen to them.

    Reply
  13. Maggie C

    July 29, 2013 at 1:06 pm

    How you could be so dead tired that you want to sleep but a smile from your little one makes you perk right up.

    Reply
  14. Morgan Moeller

    July 29, 2013 at 5:23 pm

    Not a momma yet, but expecting any day now! I am surprised at how downright EXHAUSTED I am!

    Reply
  15. Samantha Daleo

    July 29, 2013 at 8:35 pm

    I quickly learned that sleep is over rated and that there is no stronger love than a mothers love for her baby.

    Reply
  16. Jill @ Real Life Notes

    July 29, 2013 at 9:59 pm

    I’m surprised by how cute you think all the annoying things your kid does still are!

    Reply
  17. jeannine s

    July 29, 2013 at 10:31 pm

    I was surprised by how much love and protectiveness I felt for another person

    Reply
  18. Nicole

    July 30, 2013 at 7:22 am

    Aside from the wipes, which it seems we all agree on, the second most important thing I have on hand would have to be snacks. If this boy eats so much now at the age of four, I am seriously concerned for my food bill when he reaches his teens! I’d better start saving now 😛

    Reply
  19. Livivua Chandler

    July 30, 2013 at 10:21 am

    I use the dr. smith small to go packets religiously. My nurse actually gave me a whole box and i love this cream for go away fast action for diaper rashes. I feel like the most surprising thing about parenting is that they always learn faster and more than you think they do and when you look around you are amazed at the new things they are doing

    Reply
  20. Lynda @MommyPowers

    July 30, 2013 at 1:34 pm

    All the LOVE I feel for my little ones, it is never-ending!

    Reply
  21. Lynda @MommyPowers

    July 30, 2013 at 1:34 pm

    All the LOVE I feel for my little ones, it is never-ending!

    Reply
  22. Heather Hayes Panjon

    July 30, 2013 at 4:10 pm

    What Surprised Me The Most Is How Quickly The Babies Grow Up!

    Reply
  23. Heather

    July 30, 2013 at 7:57 pm

    I know everyone says they grow so quickly and time flies, but holy moly…….I can’t believe how quickly everything passes! I need time to slow down!

    Reply
  24. Barbara Montag

    July 30, 2013 at 8:33 pm

    I was so surprised by the sheer job I experienced during my daughter’s birth.
    Thank you.

    Reply
    • Barbara Montag

      July 30, 2013 at 8:33 pm

      Oops that was supposed to be joy.

      Reply
  25. Nataly Carbonell

    July 30, 2013 at 9:04 pm

    Hope was born, I felt like I was never going to be alone ♥

    Reply
  26. Nataly Carbonell

    July 30, 2013 at 9:04 pm

    Hope grew within me, I felt like I was never going to be alone ♥

    Reply
  27. Diana C

    August 1, 2013 at 3:10 pm

    We are ttc, and I have learned so far that sometimes it takes time. It has been a while now.

    Diana C

    Reply
  28. Stephanie

    August 1, 2013 at 4:29 pm

    I am pregnant with my first right now and the thing that has surprised me most is how nice everyone is to me. So many more people talk to me, ask about my baby and tell me about their kids, give up their seats, and offer help or kind words.

    Reply
  29. kolpin

    August 1, 2013 at 5:31 pm

    my sister was surprised that baby #2 was harder than baby #1!

    Reply
  30. Krissie

    August 2, 2013 at 8:58 pm

    It always surprises me how many things I can squeeze into one day — there is so much to do when you have a baby,
    Califkitties @ aol.com

    Reply
  31. latanya

    August 3, 2013 at 2:11 pm

    how much I would need

    Reply
  32. ellen casper

    August 3, 2013 at 9:41 pm

    How different 2 kids can be in personality

    Reply
  33. Jamie @ Roubinek Reality

    August 3, 2013 at 10:13 pm

    I never realized how much cleaning I’d be doing. It feels like it’s allllll day long!!

    Reply

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